Thanksgiving List!

This year has been a spectacular year to reflect upon. So much was done and I have so much to feel truly blessed about. I used to think Thanksgiving was such a boring holiday with dry food that I’d be eating for weeks, but now that I’m older there are so many blessings that we can all be thankful for. For one, living in a privileged nation where the standard of living is so high that we don’t have to worry about surviving, or getting our next meal. But besides that mushy stuff that I am truly thankful for here is my top 10 list:

10. Jenna Marbles.

9. Chocolate. Candy Canes. Pumpkin things.

8. Glee, Real world, and Burn Notice.

7. Dance music, I love dancing.

6. Ke$ha. Enough said.

5. Swimming, although I don’t like it always it has kept me in shape, made me some of the best friends, and made for some of the best memories.

4. This blog, it has proved to be a great way to vent my feelings and give and get support.

3. My Family, sappy but true. They are wonderful most of the time.

2. My super supportive friends. They will always have my back and I will always have theirs.

1. Duke, he sparked a internal revolution in my life and I love him 🙂 (Especially cuddling with him)

Have a truly wonderful Thanksgiving, reflect on what you are thankful for even comment it if you want!!

Guys V Girls

Tonight I just came out to another friend. This time it was a guy. I believe my count for people knowing is like 9 girls and 4 guys. The reason for this isn’t that I don’t have guy friends but I think it is exponentially harder to come out to a guy than a girl. I’m not really quite sure how that is?

I have several theories but I can’t really prove them. For one, I feel guys make more hurtful gay jokes than girls so the seem less accepting. Also, I have a fear that any guy I come out to will think I’m interested in him which usually I’m not. Thirdly, although I never think I would have to worry about this, usually males have been known to physically abuse gay kids. Also, I’ve never really heard of a guy “always wanting a gay best friend” it just doesn’t happen. Plus I’m sure there is loads of other reasons which you guys should share! But I find it funny that coming out to girls seems easier than coming out to guys. It doesn’t register in my head.

Hope you all have a fantastic Turkey Day! Top 10 things that I’m thankful for are next!!